We watched – again - nauseated, stunned, horrified – hearing the grief-stricken wail of dying…
A major difference between these two modalities is that Characteranalysis lives and breathes in the here and now and interacts spiritedly with the blatant defensive style and chronic approach of the client.
We learn basic coping strategies early on that are reinforced throughout our lives.
These strategies are carved into our being both mentally and biophysically and create our interface with others. We unconsciously hone patterns of thought, feeling reaction and behavior that keep us afloat, but not as the master of our ship. Sometimes those patterns are hurtful both to our self and others because they are repeatedly destructive.
These defensive patterns are very obvious to the trained eye and characteranalysis highlights and engages them with the client. As therapists using characteranalysis, we interrupt the unconscious or conscious approaches that do not serve and ask the client to look and feel how they are being in the present. We are more interested in illuminating the unhealthy defensive modes than in using a primarily interpretive therapeutic approach. We work less with history, story and intellectualized modes because we want the raw, felt sense of contact with how we are.
Only then can we face into our selves honestly, experience the painful origins from our past with real feeling, and move forward in a very different way.